Sunday, November 3, 2013

ohmygodwhatshoulditexthim

So there's this guy I've hung out with a couple times. I've got the super hots for him. I find him very attractive and can't help but smile when I see him.

I was hanging out with him and a few of my friends last night. It was a grand ole time. He drove us all back to my place and when everyone was leaving, he took my hand, kissed me on the cheek, and said that he'd like to take me out soon so the two of us can spend some time together. I almost dropped dead right on the spot.

He texted me tonight and I completely girled out about it. I waited thirty minutes to respond but I already had a text drafted and I accidentally sent it at exactly the thirty minute mark, so then I wondered if he would notice the exactness and assume that I had put as much strategy into that text as I did.

Which got me thinking (never a good thing)...

I wonder if boys ever realize how much thought we girls put into our interactions with them? We overanalyze, over-criticize, and over-think until our little minds and hearts are exhausted. It's no wonder we're all bitches.

Stay tuned for more on my new crush, including but not limited to potential blurry pictures of him that I *might* sneak at dinner.


25 comments:

  1. Don't forget planning the exact course of how each conversation will go! Good luck :-)

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  2. Good luck with this boy!
    As a boy I am aware girls can do that, but I didn't know just how much or how often until this blog. Keep giving us the deets if you can!

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  3. can you describe him more? what does he look like? tall or short? white or black? thick, thin or average build?

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  4. All your Male fans including myself hearts just sank. But good luck Jennette you deserve to be happy.

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  5. No, they don't. The majority of boys don't realize how much thought you girls put into your interactions with us.
    But there's some exceptions! :)

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    1. I appreciate everything. Although I also end up over thinking every last text just like Jennette in this case.

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  6. Awwe. This is the news I was inevitably dreading! Sooo jelly right now :$

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  7. so, he wants to have sex with you.. what can i say? HE IS A F**CKING LUCKY BOY!

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  8. I think as Hot as you are considering anything but happiness you accepted is out of the question!@

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  9. He could be attractive as hell but a complete asshole. Watch out for the boys that always get what they want (women included) they're the f*cking WORST

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  10. This is too cute! I've read your post three times already. I wish you all the best with the guy and hope things will go well! :) I totally agree with you. Girls usually overthink every single thing(like me) and they put their whole heart in when it comes to someone they like. Good luck!

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  11. Now I understand why girls take so long to text back. It's funny, guys are always being told to not think and just take action. Best of luck in the dating world, Jennette!

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  12. Aww, cute! I definitely agree! Us girls do over think things. Im definitely one of them, lol. But everything will be okay and fall into place for you. Good luck, J! Hey, ya never know he could be that exception that's overthinking about you.

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  13. No worries we guys do the same thing. But thing we do is act cooler and more calm. Also if he's doing those things to you "walking t o your house and kissing you on your check" then he definitely likes you. GO FOR IT!

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  14. We know all that —the overthinking and such— but don't realize them being there unless we overthink the thing too. One may perfectly like a girl a lot, but don't over think, so we don't understand things the same way., and can't read "signals".
    And, please, for the guy's sake, do not expect him to notice. If you want to say something, just say it. Just respect times.

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  15. Go for it Jennette ! <3 Let's cheer for you :D

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  16. I can say with 100% certainty that I personally do this exact same thing... but again, as a guy, the process is much shorter because we're always told to just "man up" and just say what we're thinking. I promise you though, guys are always thinking this exact same thing, "Just play it cool man, just play it cool."

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  17. This can't be real. I don't remember kissing anyone on Sunday...

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  18. Aww I wish you the best with your newfound major crush J. I really don't think you have anything to worry about though because I mean.. what guy in his right state of mind would pass you by?. It's like he already got you bouncin' on a trampoline so you can only go up from there!

    I think he was probably freaking out about it more than you? lol. Don't overthink it though just go with the flow and see what happens:) can't wait to hear more about mystery man. Thanks for sharing! XOXO

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  19. I hope it makes you happy that's all. That is as beautiful as you, not physically but inside. Good luck! Kisses from Brazil

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  21. Jennette your attention is much disputed by fans, but I hope to see this.
    I always admired his role as Sam on iCarly, and now admire you Jenn, you're so perfect, the way mature and cheerful, you act perfectly fine, you're so beautiful :3 sweet, perfect, I can say is that I am a bit obsessed by you, 'Cause you're amazing ok? I hope you understand, my english can be confusing because I'm not fluent ..

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  22. I highly disagree with many of these people.
    Us guys do know how much thought and strategy women put into their interactions with us (at least the smart ones do) but the smarter ones appreciate it. To a certain extent it can be cute. But if you over-do it, he may feel like he is talking to a middle schooler.

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  23. It's been awhile since you made a blog but I hope things are going well with you and your crush and you've been able to go out with him and have fun and that he's having fun with you as well and you're both feeling really loved by one another.

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